Mystery of Capricorn

"to deal with them properly".
I sense a bit of a struggle ;-)

Every sign has its pros and cons.

I suspect that you may be talking about, um, the 'stubbornness' perhaps; their determination to implement their will and their seemingly unemotional going about it in fulfilling their 'plan'. I don't know... If one should be poking you from the side, then I suggest that you step back a little and try to bring yourself into a logical frame of mind. Then, try telling them gently that it's not working, and that if they truly care for you, that their steady poking and pushing must seize, for that otherwise you will have to excuse yourself from their sight for an undisclosed amount of time. This has usually worked pretty well for me. Just know that they mean well; 'poking' is just their natural way, which makes them who they are; this serves them well. They are achievers, they build bridges and they forge relationships that if nurtured well will last for as long as you allow them to last; a life-time, if you care. They are very sweet, honest people; kinda like Aries minus some of the fire... In my case, being Scorpio, I find the shared interest in the occult and a seemingly inherent drive to uphold 'justice' wherever we are to be one of the more interesting shared aspects and points of attraction between the two. The Cancer-Capricorn dynamic may be a slightly more intricate matter to properly maintain. Try to take into account that their emotional treshold is not quite as 'expansive' as yours. Be gentle, and they will listen. Just my $0.02. They both start with "Ca" though ;-)~

Feel free to tell me that I'm completely off.

d.

If you ever need help scaring them away, call on me. I'm a Cancer too who just tried recently to seduce a Cappy. I was halfway there, got a yes to the date, but unfortunately the date never came and he got cold feet and decided it was best for us to not go out at all (because he is good friends with my brother and it would be strange and blah blah blah blah)

I think my confidence in asking him out and coming on strong scared him away.

Cancers and Capricorns are wonderful together though.

"Being Cancerian , I'm trying to figure out how to deal with them properly."

Is this "them" properly really mean "her?'

Capricorn woman here!

I read that five times before dissecting it .

It comes off slightly confusing yet alluring and sexy in a cute-yet weird sort of way so ....you

are on the right tract and get bonus round points.

But your Capricorn female in question will think these questions through and won't exactly

ask what is meant by it because you wrote 'them."

Capricorn's want to know who you are .

Capricorn's want you to be yourself and appreciate and respect them for who they are .

Capricorn's take to heart your words and what they are saying and your approach to things

and such.

No actions are overlooked whether inquired about or not.

Don't try to make huge impression or we will expect that and more from you.

Anything less is a betrayal and seen as a disguise to trick us .

If you dispise the things a Capricorn loves then say so without belittling- just give the facts.

We can deal with it and find things both will like and can still have separate interest.

And under no circumstance pretend you like things and are a certian way other than who

you really are.

Just be yourself - Capricorn's are negoicators we need to know what we are befriending or

falling in love with

If she is the Apple of your eye create a special eclusive status for her.

If you are considering her to be your girlfriend ,anything regarding the opposite sex

which is not mother or children- run it pass her and describe the relationship.

IF she becomes a girlfriend always introduce her as such.

Move in slowly - if you declare your feelings and she doesn't say no way ! or give a negitve

verbal response then don't assume the worst of what may appear to be indifference.

If you just want a date to see where things will go ----then say that using clear and direct

words.

Or become a friend first and later if things seem be right ---then drop the ball later.

Don't say anything unless you absolutely mean it .

It will take longer for you to get a positive response than a negaitive one.

We are slow moving annoying goats , yet in another universe deep within the sculpture of

ice we are blushing and shaking in the knees while screaming and giggling with delight.

A Capricorn woman offers a lot in return for your loyality , honesty and patience.Capricorn

women have a very private and passonate side which is nothing short of

unforgettable .

Best of luck , if anything we can make very loyal and long lasting friends .

K. -

Wow. As a capricorn, and talking to a cancer....I would be cautious. We are opposites of the zodiac, and find each other fascinating, but frustrating. We are NOT the openly emotional ones, much unlike cancers. However, we are both prone to sulk when upset. Most of my relationships with cancers (in and out of the bedroom) usually end in tears and lost communication. Now, I'm not saying you are fighting a lost cause, but a touchy one. Do not disrespect capricorn. We don't mind holding grudges, but neither do you (cancers). So...proceed lightly. We are introverts and our emotions are private to us. If you want to get under our skin, you will NOT pry. Cancer is a water sign. Capricorn is earth. We are to 'cool, dry' ones. Often preceived as cold, but if treated right, we are deeply passionate. I do wish you luck. I hope I was not too negative, but just trying to let you see it from the female cap side of things.

i love capricorns,, but being a cancer- the 2 relationships i've been in did work out.
My best friend is a capricorn though. Our friendship has been a long very good one for 20 yrs now :-)

very well said!!!!........and no offence to anyone, i dislike cancerians...
im a cap with scorpio ascendant, and im in love with a scorpio~

I must agree, I'm a cap w/ scorpio rising and a moon in pieces, cancer's is our oppsite sign, so they have what we don't; emotion. They are great friends because my mom is a cancer, the worry and panic more than caps-to me. How to deal with us: just be true, loyal, and honest and we all will get along. And I don't have many female friends, mostly male because me and other females don't really get along, especially when it comes to discussing intimate details about my relationships, its a real big NO. To me, guys seem more easy to talk to, they don 't ask a bounch of questions and stuff, they're just good company to chill-out with.

ditto, I didn't know that the few female friend thing was a Capricorn thing. Neat. But I have a Taurus moon so wine and dine me all you want. Save the flowers though unless you want to put petals in the bathtub. I've heard quite a few Capricorn woman talk about how fond they are of long luxurious baths.

Annie Lennox ~ Legend In My Livingroom
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love all-ways,
mem

Think of Capricorn a little differently than the established view. First of all, think of Cap as an alchemist. Changing lead into Gold. Thats what they do becuase they are so focused, there a Cardinal sign, aggresive in silence. Cancers rule absortion, the Moon absorbs more light in relativity to us than any other planet, with that, Cancers constantly absorb what ever they need for Emotional stability, being food, to water, to wealth. Cancers collect and store energy (Material comforts, home) Now look at Capricorn, they do not absorb, they use what they got, and they will use what is available, they have no needs because all they need is there FOCUS. Yep Capricorns can be the most focused people on the planet, and in my eyes they are. Even when you read your chart, Saturn represent restrictions, thats focus on one aspect and not on a variety of aspects. Centrialized, stoic, constructive in analasis. Serious but with a childlike naivity but not in the lest bit Niave. COMMON SENSE rules. Steadfast and willing to take the time to succeed in what it is they like to do, because success is daily doing. Extreme Practicality, no waste. They are cautious, it seems they never take a chance when in fact its the chances that they take that they succeed in because of Focus, common sense, serious, childlike, and a given ability to sense what is needed. There stoic nature makes them like wallflowers until someone talks to them, then the games begin. Dry humour, and Capricorns seem to grow up fast and get childlike at they get older. Capricorn senses the spirituality in him, understands the connection to all, thats why they need nothing and use everything. Capricorns are here to develop a true connection with Wisdom. Thats there real goal.