ok, i'm an aries female, sag moon, cancer ascending, leo mars and pisces venus.
my guy is a cancer sun, gemini moon, sag ascending, mars in sag and venus in gemini.
we do pretty well, but sometimes he gets kind of wierd all of a sudden, gets this faraway look on his face, but if i ask (in a non harping way, and only once) if anything is on his mind he says no and seems very distant. it's like he just kind of snaps into it. weird. i'm also wondering about cancer men and matters of the erotic, taking all the other parts of his reading into context. is there anything special i should know? do? what might be his motivations romantically. what makes him feel best, happiest? keeping my fire rich reading in mind as well. am i correct in assuming that our signs seem to balance out nicely? i have a need for loyalty and fidelity that irritates me, it approaches an unreasonable level, really. i have a huge sex drive, which doesn't seem to irritate him!
but he's got that sag and gemini, and that might not bode well for fidelity. trust me, i know, dad was a sag.............
input from anyone?
my guy is a cancer sun, gemini moon, sag ascending, mars in sag and venus in gemini.
we do pretty well, but sometimes he gets kind of wierd all of a sudden, gets this faraway look on his face, but if i ask (in a non harping way, and only once) if anything is on his mind he says no and seems very distant. it's like he just kind of snaps into it. weird. i'm also wondering about cancer men and matters of the erotic, taking all the other parts of his reading into context. is there anything special i should know? do? what might be his motivations romantically. what makes him feel best, happiest? keeping my fire rich reading in mind as well. am i correct in assuming that our signs seem to balance out nicely? i have a need for loyalty and fidelity that irritates me, it approaches an unreasonable level, really. i have a huge sex drive, which doesn't seem to irritate him!
but he's got that sag and gemini, and that might not bode well for fidelity. trust me, i know, dad was a sag.............
input from anyone?
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Fri, July 21, 2006 - 7:54 PMI have dated a couple of Cancer guys and the emotional back and forth tended to boarder on being bi-polar. Ok, one of them actually was bi-polar.
I hate to generalize, but the Gemini moon guys I have known can be very on and off emotionally as well. They love you or they hate you and once they decide they don't care for you it is like a light switch goes off and it is tough to get them back. Your Aries Sun and the Leo Mars could cause him to shrink, even when you don't mean to be in his face, he may feel that you are. your energy is a little more "out there" than his is.
As far as trying to guess his romantic motivations...lol... he is a guy and I don't have a very good handle on even IF they have romantic motivations.
You are right about the Saggie thing. I tend to shy away from them as well for the very same reason. Although it isn't fair to judge them all. -
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Fri, July 21, 2006 - 9:51 PMThe Cancer and Aries connection is a natural square, which leads to great passion but also that opposites attract feel we get with some people. Gemini Moons are naturally inquisitive and often wander off into their own moods and interests, there need not be anything particularly wrong either.
It is a bit heavy to consider conditions involving depression, as that could be said for any of the cap/aqua/pisces moons, and I am sure that would not be a happy generalisation for those people to accept either.
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Tue, July 25, 2006 - 9:29 PMi'm not an astrology expert by all means but I have a ton of gemini and sag in my chart to atleast be able to say I can completely understand the being distant and switching off thing and in my personal experience those are the moments I feel disconnected from earth, restless, bored, that feeling of just needing to do something or I might go insane, but then other times they are moments where I realise something, a lightbulb moment so not always a restless feeling.
As a mars in gemini I get irritable, bored and restless if I feel like i'm stuck in a rut or not really doing/achieving anything. I need to keep myself busy, not just physically but mentally and so even though I lay in bed alot on my off time my mind is running a 100 miles per hour exhausting myself with books, movies, articles, things I think about. The need for input is sometimes so strong if I don't feed that mental desire for information I wll feel like jumping out of my skin and going insane. I realise your partner has mars in sag but i would relate his need to be constantly active and experiencing new things a bit to my own moon in sag and yours. Except because it is sag in mars and mars is such an important placement in a mans chart if he is not feeling particularly challenged with his work and doubting himself through work then that could play a big part in his distant little moods.
I'm a cancer sun, cook us a nice hot hearty meal and serve it up in bed with a good movie, lots of pillows and a cosy blanket, light some candles, feed him, cuddle him, cancers love lots of hugs and cosy affection, makes me feel warm and fuzzy just thinking about it.
Hope I made some sense there.
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Sat, September 16, 2006 - 3:07 PM-ok, i'm an aries female, sag moon, cancer ascending, leo mars and pisces venus.-
So your easily motivated, spontaneous. Quick to act. You Moon makes you agreeeable and pleasant, even jovial. But you acesdent as always got you asking questions. Insecurity, staying on top of the situation. Your mars is that of one who likes to get things done, finished, with apreciation, a pat on the back, you need to be noticed for what you contribute. Your venus is that of the martyr, you sacrifice more than whats needed. You are gentle, you desire the esoteric more than the mundane. The imagination. You got to know when to stop.
my guy is a cancer sun, gemini moon, sag ascending, mars in sag and venus in gemini.
The sag acendent tones down the Cancer emotions, more on the line of logic or even religious in nature, no matter what type of religion is use, even a personal belief. When Sag or pieces are not happy they leave, its that simple. Moon in Gemini shows a personality that is adaptive to any situation, and the sag rising, he knows what exactly what he wants to say. His mars in Sag shows that he believes that he can be free to do what ever he pleases while his venus in gemini give the idea of diversity and intellect to attract his emotions. If Mars is in strong opposition to Venus then he may be a free spirit and may not make concrete connections. Thus he drifts. You will have to follow his emotional layer to make a strong connection with him. Your Mars leo is in conflict with Venus in Gemini, Leo needs stablity. While his mars is sag to your venus in pieces, this can be good if the need for exchange between the individual is clear, mars has a habit of being cold even in its passion (fire). Mars in Sag needs to manifest whats needed, Saturn.
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Sat, May 12, 2007 - 8:02 AMAs for the cancer going off into dream-mode:don't worry too much about it. it's a normal cancerian thing to do. they need their dreams and they are highly imaginative. it might be difficult for a more practical aries to deal with, but try not to worry so much.
I can't really offer any advice on the erotic, but I can say that one of the best erotic poets, Pablo Neruda, was a Cancer. I'd especially recommend his work "Residence on Earth". Maybe you could share it with your Cancer man. ^_^ -
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Sat, May 12, 2007 - 5:34 PM"Maybe you could share it with your Cancer man. ^_^"
Talk about getting things going *_^
heh heh...
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Sun, May 13, 2007 - 4:01 PMHe has Venus in Gemini like I do. This is tough for us. I am also Cancer Sun. For me my moods change constantly, I notice it changing all day long. He will be tough to get and he will protect himself as much as possible. Keeping you distant from his true feelings. Ive never dated a Aries so I can't help you with that part. My friends that are Aries I respect greatly and do have fun with. But I am a lot deeper then all of them. Do some research on Venus in Gemini. I see Venus in Gemini as keeping me from marrying the first girl I like because of my Cancer Sun. -
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Mon, July 2, 2007 - 7:17 PMGosh, you must be masochistic or something because I don't think I could be with a Cancer man strictly speaking, although anything is possible and essentially we all are our own individuals.
I just wish you luck in your journey, hope you come out alive and still sane, and tell us about the sex. That's what I'm mostly curious about cuz damn those crabbies, much as I dislike em, they are sexy. -
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Re: help, i'm an aries in love with a cancer!
Thu, April 10, 2008 - 7:00 PMI am sure you have noticed that you both have sag and cancer in your big three
and that you can probably understand him pretty well if you work on understanding how those energies work in your life
Also cancers are like that more often than many others as far as going into his own world or whatever
He'll tell you when he needs to unless you push into it then he won't.
don't let it bother you
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