I'm a Scorpio woman that is falling for a Cancer man....I need input on this situation...PLEASE!

yes, you called and apologized (i don't really agree with you having to apologize, but that's in the past now), so now call him again and tell him you miss him or something and act like nothing has changed. we melt for stuff like that.

also, if you want to fool around or anything, you may have to make the first move. he may feel a little insecure as to when you'd want to get physical again and we're notorious for widdling our thumbs about these things and never making that move--especially since you have 'rejected' him. i'm willing to bet anything that he hasn't lost interest, but i think he may just feel unsure of what to do and where you guys stand right now.

but be careful that he's also manipulating you to make himself feel better.

He may have took you getting dressed and leaving as a sign of rejection. Thats how i would see it. Thats probaly why he did not say anyhting. Because if says something and you say no i'm leaving it hurts more.

Sorry Chica

I have been terribly sick and have been red ridden :( BUT I am better now!!! :)

As far as the whole situationyou were speaking of. This is my take on it. Please don not get offended. We as scorpian women have a way in being needy but will NEVER admit to it. Like, we fish for compliments or we want the other person to profess the undying love for us. When i say being "needy" it is not the needy that we feel like we have to have some one. It is the need to know we are incontrol of what is going on. It is either, you want it or you dont and we want to know. There is no, I am confused or maybes.

When you got up to get dressed, you were wanting him to say "stay" or "dont go". If were filling him out without being forth coming with him. Just talk to him, ask him questions because Cancer men are kinda dense in thier thinking. I dont mean that as they are flighty BUT they dont analyze and over analyze like us scorpian women do. To them, it is what it is.
For him, if he didnt care for you, then he wouldnt have done that with you. Cancer men, love to feel needy and do not like a woman who is independant. They love to take care of the ones they are with and once they feel like they are not needed then they pride, ego, and feelings do get hurt. He probably did feel rejected to a degree but thought in your mind, this is what she wants so okay. They take surface information and go with it, to where we analyze and re analyze and do it again and it almost drives us crazy....LOL.

As, i had said before me and my Cancer man have never argued. I have done him soooo wrong in our past but we still never argued. However, they only heated argument we have gotten into was over me being so independant and my parents influence over my decisions. He wanted me to know that it bothers him when i dont let him take care of me and he wanted me to know that this was "our" relationship and no one elses. It bothers then if they feel like we do not trust them. That is the ultimate slap in the face. I learned that the hard way. I told my Cancer man that and he was truly hurt. Cancer men have an innate sense of loyalty once you earn thier trust and respect. Like i said, it is what it is with them.

In his mind, he probably thought..."okay, i wouldnt had sex with her if i didnt want to be with her". That is loyalty to him, He doesnt feel the need to dissect it and analyze it likw we want them to. Your Cancer man needs to know, with your help, that you are a very complex person. You need to lay it all out there in the most gentle, non defensive way possible. Explain to him how you feel when he does certain things . Dont make him feel like you are attacking him though because he wont understand. Once you do this, i assure you he will have had no clue about what was goin on in your head. Heck, half the time we dont know....you know tahts true ...lol

The night I initially post this was the first time I had spoken to mine in months. We spoke on the phone for 20 minutes and his dad was in the hospital. He wanted to talk about how much he missed me and how he tried texting me on my birthday and how he still loves me. Then we went to texting and he still kept saying how he knows we are meant to be with each other and are soul mates and regardless of what i think or believe he will have me one day. It made me feel good to know he still felt that way because i broke up with him last. (I cant stand emotional, indecisive people) He said he loved me and blah blah blah..

Since then i have barely heard from him...lol. If i text, he will text back but is very short. This seems bad BUT i have come to understand him. I know that this is him. Cancers need thier space and I give it to him. I dont question him and jump his case or psychanalyze him BUT it is because out of 10 years i have come to understand him.

Cancer men mean what they say, and say what they mean. At times it still aint good enough for us scorpios but thats when we have retrain our minds and take on the concept of it is what it is.. It is hard but i know if he is doing something he is not suppose to be then my gut ALWAYS tells me otherwise...ALWAYS...

If he is saying he loves you or cares for you and wants to be with you then he means it... Just hold on to that when you have doubts. It never hurts to initiate a conversation with them but dont be too clingy. I have found with us it did take alot of time to really establish the love that we have but once we did it is something that is uniques and everlasting. Even if we never make it as a couple we will always be in touch and vert very close.

He has sought me out 3 times in the last 10 years. I mean, like he has showed up at me doorstep after not talking for years!!! He is a cop so he has acces to that info in where to find me...lol. He has always called me when he had girl problems and when he found out he was having a baby and getting married and going through a divorce. There is a solid love there and respect. But it all came about in time and what seemed to be alot of games on both our parts and making the effort to understand each other.

When you sense he is kina put off about something you have said or done then be the first to explain yourself because he will take it personally and he is not the type pressure you on why you offended him...to him, you got it, IT IS WHAT IT IS....

Essentially, I feel in my core astrology doesnt determine aho you should end up with but it is pretty concise in personality traits so take it into consideration but dont base everything on it

hope this helped :)

LOL.... Dude you just feel into a situation with a chic that will have alot of ups and downs. A very very complex person...lol (bless you heart) ha

Going off how i am, i can tell you that when you are getting mixed signals it is because she is going off what she getting from you. If she is feeling like your acting shady, she will multiply that. She will distance herslef from you but will quickly let all that go when she sees you are making an effort to pursue her. We all scorp women have some hellacious trust issues so if she feels like she is trustin you more then she is getting from you she may even create a problem, or drama, to see how you will react to it.

We love for guys to be open with us but to also in a gentle manner to set us straight. We want to be positive that someone is willing to fight for hte relationship as we are. One thing i know for a fact, she will be loyal to you if she feels like you are always being honest with her. If you know she is over analyzing things, just be like "look, i care for you and you should know me well enough by now to know i will tell you whats on my mind or if something is up but i feel like you are reading too much into this.

A bonified way into a scorps heart, is to be open with them. I ask alot of question, i mean alot. It is how i feel people out. I ask about thier past, what they want, why their relationships have ended, what they took away from them, i mean EVERYTHING. If someone can be honest then it gives me a sense of intimacy with that person. We are not people who take things lightly but if you ask me about htings and i am vague about it, then dont pressure it. Just really try to make an effort to understand her and if she is acting distant, ask why!!! TRUST ME, SHE WANTS YOU TO.

When my cancer man told me the things that bothered him about me, it made me feel better. It showed me he cared enough, that something was bothering him about me. Because, we know we aint perfect and if you say we are then we know you are bullshittin and havent thought about it enough to care about anything.

Thats how we think, we are complex and think way toooooo much. I admit i over analyze evrything....hence the word ANAL is the root of that word....lol. I am my worst enemy sometimes but it is because i am a very passionate person. Thats the good thing about us. We fight to the end and even after that for the things that are important. Just be very open with her and you will see a difference