CANCER man falling for a SCORPIO woman,,, NEED HELP !

Can anyone direct me to a link or something where i can study more of the sun, positions and everything else.

I'm totally ignorant in this field.

Any help will be much appreciated.

thanks people,

treat her like plutonium

"pointers"!! teehee ;)

love all-ways,
mem

Well, I have yet to read the remaining responses from people so may be, may be not reiterating what someone else says?

Firstly, the obvious - the best person to tell you how to treat her is, well two people actually - her, and you.

She can best share with you how she prefers to be related with.
And you can best know what is most authentic and natural or desireable for you in relating with her.

Second - obvious as it is, people who share the same sun sign and other astrological placements are still varied people. Which pretty much goes back to the first aspect of asking her directly. And being willing to really hear and accept what she expresses as wanting, being interested in, etc..
Do not try to force things in my opinion. Maybe she would like that? But it may also be... forcing things which can break them.

I can personally relate to the process of feeling people and being patient in the ongoing process of discerning how "real", honest people are that I open up to personally closely. Do they talk alot of promises, professions of Love, interests, blah blah blah but often do not follow through? That turns me off when it is in certain aspects of relating, making plans with each other, expressions of values in certain areas yet actions speak otherwise.

Of course flexibility is useful as life is fluid and changeable. Yet there can be significant differences in a natural, healthy fluidity and change in ourselves and life, which is different from simply being flakey, saying what someones thinks another wants to hear in order to get something like relating in certain ways from them when that someone really does not feel, believe, value or want what they are saying they do.
Or they simply do not really know themselves well enough to really know but are willing to say they do to "get" something. Granted, this can be a grey area as we are changing, transforming beings. Scorpios and other signs equally.

Yet there is an inner space that if we are open to &honest with ourselves and others, we can feel when we know we don't really know.
Or that for as much as possible we do know how we feel about something, what we really believe, want, have done, will do...
And being straight up honest about this is essential for full integrity, honesty and energetically clear relationships with ourselves and others.

Thirdly - this is just my feeling, as everything i expressed is at least at this moment, Im not much of a believer in "The One". As in there is only one real person in the vast universe that we are matched to and compatible with ultimately. Likely there are many people who are potentially well matched as friends, lovers, life companions, work partners, etc.
Some certainly more so than others.
But I cant speak for others on this.

So my suggestion, listen to her. What is she saying verbally, energetically, relationally? And trust that. If she is saying opposite of what she wants, well Im not into that type of energy-wasting game playing myself and would just walk away if thats the case. Better to relate with someone who means what they express so energy is clearer all around.

Love yourself - no one is worth losing your center over. This is different from closing ones heart though. Heart open, but equilibrium emotionally remains within ones own center, Love & being.

hows it going??!! we got your back man!! the zodiac posse...

not fell "feel"

As a Scorp woman... I have ALWAYS had more guy friends than girl friends... My closest and bestest friends are always guys. Minimal drama and guys can handle my brashness and appreciate my opinion and value my opinion because of my honesty